Aakhir Kyu Aurat Hi Aurat Ka Dard Nahi Samajhti ....?

yahi to hamaare samaaj ki vidambana hai ki ek aurat bhi ek aurat ke dard ko nahi samajh paati hai.

agar ham aurat, ek doosre ki dukh-dard aur samasyo ko samajhne  lage aur baatne lage, to hamaari aadhi samasyo ka samadhaan apne aap hi ho jayega. aakhir ham mahilaaye bhi is baat ko kyu nahi samajh pate. aur agar samajh bhi jaate hai to, use apnaate kyu nahi hai. Agar ham mahilayen apni is kamjori ko sweekar kar le aur ek dusre ka saath musibat me de aur sabse pahle ek dusre ko samjhe, to har ek kathinai ka samna aasani se ham kar saktey hain. 

_Rani_  

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Why Is Women Becoming A Joke In Our Society

I will not start off with an opinion because a personal  opinion can be both agreed and disagreed on. Now thing we can all agree on is the leprosy our society has of the way a girl is looked upon. Very true that not all man our the same way but do we not all see the unfairness going on. A male can walk around with many girlfriends and is easily called a "dude" like that is a reward of the ridiculous thing he has done meanwhile, a girl could get raped and groped and still be assumed the matter of blame. When a girl walks with her boyfriend or even friends, society says "Sanskaar nahi raha is ladki ko." This is not about women being right and man being wrong but instead, it is about the hypocrisy in our society and how it works against our women. If we are fair and honest about the unfairness of our society, we should all be struck by this ugly truth and try to work towards a progress of this conflict.


~Rani Jha

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Dowry : The Leprosy Of Our Society

See How Dowry Is The Leprosy Of Our Society

Unable to fulfill dowry demand : Girl Killed! Girl slaughtered because girl couldn't afford dowry demand. Burned alive while screaming for help, a young girl because family couldn't pay dowry to in-laws. Husband throws acid in the wife's face to take revenge for not gifting him a brand new car. What is this?

This is nothing but solely the leprosy of society. Continuing abuse by the husband and his family with threats of harm could lead to a woman committing suicide. In such situations, the dowry crime even extends to intentions of suicide, which includes all acts and attempts to intentionally advise, encourage, or assist in committing suicide. What kind of protection is the law providing if so many women even today are dying because of such cruel practices.


"It is a shame that this constant cruelty is widely being practiced in India meanwhile progress is promised by our government."

What I fail to understand is how come women don't support other women. There is clearly a problem and unfairness between men and women that we see in everyday life but the problem does not stop there. It is also hard to ignore the amount of hate that women have against women because.... 

actually I do not even know nor do I understand the reason behind that so there i no 'because' to that. 

When discussing dowry, one of the hot topics is the women in the groom's family are 90% involved. Why so? Would you call that unfairness between men and women? Actually the only answer is, our society is sick. What type of tradition is this? Why doesn't the young generation oppose to this ugly custom? One word to describe this ridiculous tradition is GREED. People overtime have made this cruel practice to gain financially and made this custom nothing more than a money making process.


Who's at fault you ask? The parents are the clog of this leprosy. Why don't they understand. Why do they not worry about the girls education instead of crying everyday for her marriage starting from her birth? This is what hurts me the most. Parents consider their daughters as strangers wealth and don't expect or even except her daughter after marriage.



The In laws are the criminals but the girls family is accomplice. The one who helps the criminal is a bigger criminal. Time to wake up. Your daughter is biologically and practically yours not a strangers wealth. For you In-laws remember, you are selling your son to the girls family if you except or expect dowry.



~ Rani Jha

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The Student Suicide Capital Of India !

The Student Suicide Capital Of India !

These Children Gave Up On Life Due To Study

Is study worth more than life?

We study to live not live to study.

What are the causes?

pressure from study, peers, and most importantly family.

We are the cause of these precious lives. We could've saved them in a lot of cases but

we didn't realize till it was too late.

We should stop today. Let them study to live not live to study.

So many students suicide in Kota. Why?

Think about it today and look at what the results are if you

put precious lives under pressure of study. Is it worth it?

Wake up people.

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Hindustan Times की सीरीज़ 'Let’s Talk About Rape' में आठ प्रसिद्ध भारतीयों ने खुले ख़त लिखे हैं ....

Hindustan Times की सीरीज़ 'Let’s Talk About Rape' में बॉक्सर मैरी कॉम ने  अपने बेटों को खुला ख़त लिखा है जिसमें कुछ चौंकाने वाले खुलासे भी किये गए हैं. 

उन्होंने यहां तक बताया है कि उन्हें Molest किया गया था. खत में मैरी कॉम ने अपने बेटों को समझाने की कोशिश की है कि महिलाओं को किस नज़रिए से देखना चाहिए.

ये है वो ख़त...

प्रिय बेटों,
रेप के बारे में बात करते हैं. हर दिन ये सुनने में आता है कि देश में कहीं किसी औरत का रेप हुआ. तुम अभी छोटे हो, पर यही उम्र है जब तुम्हें इन सब मुद्दों के प्रति संवेदनशील बनाना होगा. मेरे साथ भी कई बार ऐसी घटनाएं हो चुकी हैं, जब मेरे सम्मान को चोट पहुंची. मैंने देश को बहुत सम्मान दिलाए, पर मेरे साथ भी कई बार छेड़-छाड़ की गयी है.
ऐसा पहली बार मणिपुर में हुआ था. सुबह 8 बजकर 30 मिनट पर मैं रिक्शे से अपने ट्रेनिंग कैंप जा रही थी, तभी एक अजनबी मेरे स्तन छू कर आगे निकल गया. मुझे बहुत गुस्सा आया, मैं रिक्शे से कूदी और उसका पीछा किया, लेकिन वो भागने में कामयाब रहा. तब मैं 17 साल की थी और अब 33 साल की हूं. लोग एक मेडलिस्ट के तौर पर मेरी प्रशंसा करते हैं, मैं चाहती हूं कि एक औरत के तौर पर भी मेरा उतना ही सम्मान हो.
याद रखना, तुम्हारी तरह ही हमारी भी दो आंखे और नाक है, हमारे शरीर के कुछ पार्ट्स भिन्न हैं, बस यही एक कारण है, जो हमें तुमसे अलग बनाता है. हम भी हमारे दिमाग का इस्तेमाल सोचने के लिए करते हैं, जैसे कि पुरुष करते हैं. हम भी अपने दिल से महसूस करते हैं, जैसे आप करते हो. हम यह डिज़र्व नहीं करते कि कोई हमारी मर्ज़ी के खिलाफ हमें छुए, हमारे ब्रेस्ट या अन्य हिस्सों से छेड़खानी करे.
दुनिया जितनी पुरुषों से है, उतनी महिलाओं से भी है. मेरी समझ में कभी नहीं आया कि पुरुषों को बिना हमारी मर्जी के हमें छूने से क्या आनंद मिलता है. महिलाओं को छेड़ना, रेप करना अपराध है, जिसके लिए कड़ी से कड़ी सज़ा मिलनी चाहिए.
भारत की राजधानी में एक जवान लड़की को कई बार चाकू मारा-मार कर उसकी हत्या कर दी गई, वहां कई लोग मौजूद थे, लेकिन कोई उसकी मदद के लिए आगे नहीं आया. मैं चाहती हूं तुम जब भी किसी लड़की के साथ कुछ गलत होते देखो, तो मूक दर्शक बने रहने के बजाए उसकी मदद के लिए आगे बढ़ो.
हमने तुम्हें सम्मान और समानता का पाठ पढ़ाया है, पर तुम्हें बहुत से शब्द सुनने को मिल सकते हैं, जैसे लोग तुम्हारे पापा को 'घर जमाई' कहेंगे, तुम्हारी मां को 'चिंकी' कहकर बुला सकते हैं, लेकिन तुम पर इसका कोई असर नहीं पड़ना चाहिए.
तुम्हारे पापा काम करने बाहर नहीं जाते, वो तुम्हें और मुझे अपना सारा वक़्त देते हैं. लेकिन ये उन्हें किसी से कम नहीं बनाता. इसके लिए मैं उनकी बहुत इज्ज़त करती हूं, मैं ये सब कर पा रही हूं, क्योंकि तुम्हारे पापा ने घर की ज़िम्मेदारियां शेयर कीं. वो ही मेरी ताकत हैं.
हम ऐसे राज्य से हैं, जो हिंसा की जकड़ में हैं. हमारे राज्य की महिलाओं को उनके पहनावे और उनके Looks के लिए टार्गेट किया जाता है. उन्हें 'चिंकी' कहकर बुलाया जाता है, ये नस्लभेद है.
मेर देश ने मुझे प्रसिद्धी और पहचान दी है, लेकिन रोड पर चलता हर व्यक्ति मुझे नहीं पहचान सकता जैसे धोनी और विराट को लोग पहचानते हैं. लेकिन मैं यह भी डिज़र्व नहीं करती की कोई मुझे 'चिंकी' कहे.
मैं औरतों के साथ हो रहे अपराधों को कम करने के लिए ज़्यादा से ज़्यादा जागरूकता फैलाना चाहती हूं. मैं चाहती हूं, जब तुम्हें कोई लड़की 'न' कहे, तो तुम उसकी इच्छा का सम्मान करो. ऐसी दुनिया बनाने में अपना योगदान दो, जहां औरतों का सम्मान होता हो, जहां वो Safe महसूस करें.
तुम्हारी
मां

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These babies born with drug addiction & only were their parents responsible for it.

Heres a very sad video on the cruelty we are doing on our future child !

These babies born with drug addiction & only were their parents responsible for it.

With numerous cases in America, and more cases from other countries, our drug addiction is destroying the precious little lives.

It is reported that when these babies are born, they are shivering because their bodies are in need of lethal drugs such as marijuana, and etc... This addiction only travels via females to the child. In another words, if the mother is the extreme drug addict then only will this addiction travel to the child. 

Why is society destroying precious life and the future of humanity?

Why are we aloud to live a normal life and these child suffer from something that wasn't a choice, pressure, or self decision; but a genetic travel of addiction from inheritance?

Mothers wake up. Leave your addiction before its too late. You are only hurting yourself and everyone around you. Try to understand. Don't kill your sweet angel. You should understand the most. So vow to give up your addiction today. 

So the next time you pick up your cigarette, think thousands of time that the same cigarette you're picking up, your child will die without a dose from as early as birth !

~ Rani

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Every Girl Should Watch This Video And Apply It To Their Life. Must Watch !!!

Society

every parent and all the girls should watch this video and read this article. 

Cancer is one of, if not the worst condition to the body. Same goes for what is described in the video.  The cancer of our society. A girl dismisses you and you dismiss her from her life forever? You say you love her, but you end up killing her? You say its true love to her but, instead of sacrificing for your love you sacrifice her so she can never look up in her life anymore. She ignores you and you throw acid in her face. She doesn't like you and you murder her.

How would you feel if she threw acid in your face? Would it feel good. What kind of love is this? You start flirting with other girls right after ruining ones life. And you say thats love. You flirt and hurt so many others around you, what if they hurt you?

Why do we not make our daughters, sisters, and any girl in the world stronger so they can fight the cruel world. We need wake to up. We need to leave our narrowness behind. Because its really just hurting them not helping. We need to rise and train our society's girls to defend themselves. This cancer is growing and it will not stop until we fight against it.

We have made women weak and we mustn't continue to do so. What good is a society of cruelty. If we can't stop it, we can at least fight against it. We must teach our girls to fight back. Lets not try to adapt the same narrowness of not helping girls. Lets educate every girl in the society in every way, so she can fight an entire war by herself. Its more important to teach her self-defense than any other hobby. This is specially for every parent who cares about their girl.
You must support them morally, and train them physically for challenges and situations in her life.

Prioritize her protection not her gender !

You are here because of her and she is here because of you. We are dependent on each other. One can't simply exist without the other. Then why do we differ in gender? Together lets end this madness and remove this hazardous bacteria out of the society.

Lets Save Our Lotuses Today !

~ Rani

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Dowry: The Leprosy Of Our Society !

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We Must Take Out This Sickness From Our Society

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